Reset and Reboot

In modern world especially in technology, when something goes wrong, we can always have it reset or reboot. Most of the time, it will fix the problem. Nevertheless, if the problem still persists, there will always be an IT guy or technical support whose can help you.

However, how about human? When something went wrong, can we reset or reboot ourselves? The answer is NO. We can’t reset or reboot ourselves as we are not robot or mechanical. Even if we can reboot or reset, the problem is still there. Well, there are three things that we can do....at least which are:

1.       Flee

2.       Fight

3.       Fix Things

Flee – as what it is define, run away from problem. Human can just ignore it and just run far far away. But, the problem will still exist, no matter how far you run from it. Human may meet it again in some circumstance. Even if there is electric sidewalk to help run or even an aircraft or spaceship, it will still follow us. If it’s hurt, well...it’s still there...

Fight – well, you can fight for what you believe in term of the problem that you experience.  But be aware that fight sometime does not help; it’s how human handle it and the outcomes will be different.

Fix Things – Last but not least, from my opinion, this is what the best thing to do. Fix things! I might not the good person to explain this as I am also human, did something wrong in the past. I fled from my problems and even fight. Fix things? It is actually what I am doing now... No matter how far you fall, you will always need to stand up and fix it. Why fix it? Because, you can’t undo what had happened but you still live for now and you can shape your future. Though it might not happen the way you planned, but it will always happen just the way it meant to be. At least you tried. Pray to God for guidance and help. God will always be there. No matter what we are or who we are, we are still God’s servant.

Here’s some clip from YouTube that I found which send a simple but a great message.

The first impression, why it is so important?

First and foremost, everyone need to know that the first impression is always the important thing.

However, there was a saying sound like "Don't judge book by it's cover". It is way too opposite as what I had said earlier right? Judging book by it's cover is the same as the first impression.

So, why first impression is important? Human have this common thing called instinct. And it is in human to judge a person by the way a person represent himself/herself. How people judge is based on how they think and what they saw.

Therefore, to represent ourself in a good manner, to gain more influence especially for a leader, one must taking care of on physical appearence. A forced physical appearence might not last long. It must be turned to be a habbits. Once it become a habbit, one will not feel force to do something. For example, when one always wear a formal outfit along with tie, sooner or later it will be one habbits. To make something to be a habbits, it must be done occasionally and always. Soon you will realize that, it will a part of your life. That is when it become one habbits.

Back to a quote about judge book by it's cover, there is one trainer once told me that that first impression counts, up to the fourth one, then it will be confirms. In the other word, if there is a book, don't just read the cover but, every page of the books!

My 2 cents...

life goes on

past is past, learn from it..
present is present, live in it...
future is to grab, work for it...
life goes on and time will never stop nor pause...

people always said, be yourself because an original is always worth more..than a copy..that's right but people will confuse on how can they change to be a better person if one or all think they should be themselves instead of being others.

in my opinion, there are two type of changes that people may experience. temporary change or permanent change.

people who change by forcing themselves to change, might remain temporary. its because, they force not willing to do it. in the end of the day, they will become who they were and might be worst?

people who change by grow up from who they were, mostly will permanently change. there will be something or someone who support their heart tp change to be a better person.

last but not least, in Islam, once on receive a hidayah, they will also change. and all of the changes of oneself will depend on their determination...

me too, somewhere deep in me, want to be a better person. i tried to be a better, good person, but always become who i was and sometime worst than that.

but one day, there is one person, who came into my life. for some reason, feel like i'm going to change to be a better person. guess like need some little push not the hard one, plus a determination.

i would like to thanks to that person buy i have not told that person.

and now, i am in the process of being someone better. what is bad, i want to
leave behind and carry what's good in me...