The first impression, why it is so important?

First and foremost, everyone need to know that the first impression is always the important thing.

However, there was a saying sound like "Don't judge book by it's cover". It is way too opposite as what I had said earlier right? Judging book by it's cover is the same as the first impression.

So, why first impression is important? Human have this common thing called instinct. And it is in human to judge a person by the way a person represent himself/herself. How people judge is based on how they think and what they saw.

Therefore, to represent ourself in a good manner, to gain more influence especially for a leader, one must taking care of on physical appearence. A forced physical appearence might not last long. It must be turned to be a habbits. Once it become a habbit, one will not feel force to do something. For example, when one always wear a formal outfit along with tie, sooner or later it will be one habbits. To make something to be a habbits, it must be done occasionally and always. Soon you will realize that, it will a part of your life. That is when it become one habbits.

Back to a quote about judge book by it's cover, there is one trainer once told me that that first impression counts, up to the fourth one, then it will be confirms. In the other word, if there is a book, don't just read the cover but, every page of the books!

My 2 cents...